How are you feeling today? Did you have a GREAT week last week? How about this week? Is this week going to be GREAT?
If you’re like many people, you feel stressed too often. You feel like you’re so busy that you can’t take time for yourself. Exercise, time with your children, reading a good book, sleep. WHAT?! You’re so busy you don’t take time to sleep enough? Well guess what? You’re not alone.
Have you ever heard of a little book called Seven Habits of Highly Effective People? It’s a great book. One idea that Stephen Covey puts forth in that book is “sphere of influence”.
Sphere of influence is another way of saying, “the things that you can control”.
Let me tell you something. If you’re spending most of your time on things that are outside your sphere of influence than I’ll bet you’re feeling busy, tired, stressed or all three!
Think about it. If you’re upset because the weather isn’t doing what you want. How much good is that doing for you? How mad do you have to get at the rain for the clouds to dry up?
A secret of the successful is that they focus the majority of their time on what they can control or influence in some way. They know that no matter how much they feel guilty or feel remorse, they can’t change the past.
So if you want to have a GREAT week. Look at your calendar, or stop and think about what you’re going to be doing and ask yourself. “How can I make this better?” “What can I do to make a difference here?” If you’re honest with yourself and you find that you’re not going to be able to make a difference, then scrap that off your calendar and put your time and energy into something more important!
By the way, there is a huge difference between what’s important and what’s urgent. Chew on that for a while and I’ll fill you in soon.
Create a GREAT week!
Helping you achieve your Vibrant Potential,
Dr. Chris Frykman
Shakopee, MN.